Showing posts with label friendship. Show all posts
Showing posts with label friendship. Show all posts

Tuesday, March 24, 2009

Live life - Kiran's way

Here's something what my sweet friend Kiran has to say.

"Take chances. Tell the truth. Date someone totally wrong for you. Say no. Spend all your cash! Fall in love. Get to know someone random. Be random. Say I love you. Sing out loud. Laugh at a stupid joke. Cry. Take revenge. Apologize. Tell someone how much they mean to you. Tell the a**hole what you feel. Let someone know what they r missing. Laugh til your stomach hurts. LIVE LIFE!"

I liked it a lot. A lot of us may not have courage to do any of the above. But want to do it all deep down. So, its for anybody who wants some confidence and ideas may be.

By the way, Kiran is my sweetest friend. We play Table Tennis together, laugh at silly jokes together, check our weight and compare together, crave for same kind of food and eat it too then, crib about putting on weight.

Its strange how some friendships even bloom. Though i've seen her in the office for more than 2 years now, its during the Table Tennis tournament last November '08 that I took notice of her. She was in the semifinals (women's singles - i think) and semi finals (mixed doubles). She lost in both and we became friends to beat our opponents.

Later we realised there is more than Table Tennis to our friendship. We both love to laugh and do that all the time. We are understanding to each others needs, respect each other and love to hang around with each other. All in all, we rock.

Hey Kiran, this is for you.

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

watch to watch!

For some strange reason I had given up on wearing a watch on my wrist. I had a good collection of watches (mostly gifted), which I had collected from past few years. To this collection, I added two more sometime in August (a birthday gift and a friendship day gift). Sometime in September when I looked for the new additional watches from the lot, they were not there. I searched a little bit but in vain. I was so mad at myself for loosing a gift. I felt extremely irresponsible and as a punishment I gave up on wearing them for the whole year.
During the same time, I had a tiff with two good friends. I started relating this with the lost watches. I analysed a little bit on why I lost the watches. Not being organised, responsible and diligent to take care of things were the reasons I lost the watches. And what about the friends? Again the same. Not being considerate, patient and gentle were the reasons. I dint want to loose my precious jewels in the form of friends. This disturbed me so much that I finally made my first attempt to reconcile the broken relationship. These two friends of mine, such lovely gentle darlings, they immediately patched up with me. The same evening, while I was looking for something else in cupboard, I saw my lovely watches sitting quietly and looking at me with a familiar smile. I was so happy. I thought I got all that I lost. J
Now this year, though I can wear the watches, I’m so used to not wearing them, I’m still continuing with the same habit. However, my collections of watches are growing though. I hope I get into my old habit of not only wearing watches, but matching them with the outfits I wear.